Happy
Happy Mail is here to bring joy to those facing cancer or chronic illness. When you sign up, you’ll receive a keychain and your choice of a personalized bracelet or earrings, along with some surprise goodies. And to add some cheer to treatment centers, we include adorable little ducks to duck your treatment centers and keep the happy flowing. It’s all about spreading happiness and support!
Nerisa
Happy Mail Founder
Triple Negative Breast Cancer Survivor
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Happy Mail's Origin Story
In December of 2023, my friend and fellow breast cancer warrior, Judy surprised me with a little package in the mail. In it was a card, breast cancer stickers, a breast cancer keychain and a bracelet that said, “she doesn’t fight alone.”
I truly appreciated every gift I got during my treatment but getting something from a fellow cancer warrior just hit different!
Knowing how it made me feel, I wanted to keep it going! So I gathered up some supplies, whipped up some bracelets and keychains and sent them to some of my “Breasties”. They loved it. And I loved it!
As my circle of “cancer friends” grew, so did my desire to share. Cancer can be so isolating and lonely. And I hate that. I wanted to share with everyone but financially, that wasn’t an option. So I swallowed my pride, made a video and asked if anyone would be interested in helping. I was hoping that just maybe, a few people would. But suddenly, my phone was blowing up! Community members and random strangers were asking for my PayPal and Venmo!
I also heard the frustration of others. Not all cancer is pink. But if you do a search for cancer gifts, everything is for breast cancer. I had TikTok friends that had ovarian cancer, so I found teal ribbon charms for my teal sisters. Then blue, then red, then orange. And yellow and white! Currently, I have 22 different ribbon charm colors because I don’t care what your ribbon color is, all cancers suck!
And while connecting with others, I learned that chronic illness warriors have similar stories, treatments and side effects. So once again, Happy Mail expanded to include even more friends!
I may have started happy mail but our community is who keeps it going.
Nerisa
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Support Happy Mail
Happy Mail is a crowd funded free service. We appreciate your support in keeping Happy Mail accessible for everyone! If you would like to contribute, you can help us by donating items from our Amazon wishlist or making a monetary donation here. Every little bit helps us continue to spread joy and keeps our services free for those who request them. Thank you for your support!
Happy Mail FAQs & Policies
Because joy should be free but stamps, supplies, and tiny ducks still cost something.
❓I filled out the form but never got my Happy Mail. What happened?
We use the exact address you provide—so if there’s a typo, missing apartment number, or a street that doesn’t exist in this reality, your mail may not make it. If a package is returned or lost due to an incorrect address, we’re not able to resend it. Please double (or triple!) check your info before submitting to make sure everything's correct.
📦 Will I get tracking info?
Yes! Once your Happy Mail is on the way, you’ll get an email with tracking details from ship@pirateship.com. (That’s our shipping service not spam.) If it shows as “delivered” but hasn’t arrived, check with neighbors or your local post office before reaching out.
💛My charm or keychain broke—can I get a replacement?
We’re so sorry that happened! Each piece is handmade with care, but not designed to last forever. Happy Mail is meant to be a small, meaningful moment—not a forever keepsake.
We aren’t able to send free replacements—but if something broke or got lost and you’d like a new one, you’re welcome to purchase a replacement for $10 to help cover materials and shipping. Just reach out and we’ll get you set up.
✨ Want something even more special?
Nerisa also makes beautiful, customizable necklaces and 100% of the proceeds help fund Happy Mail! If you’d like to wear something personal and support more mailbox joy, you can order a necklace here.
⏳ How long does it take to arrive?
Each package is packed and shipped by one person in between work, family life, and naps with my dogs. We send Happy Mail in batches, and timing depends on volume and available funding. Thanks so much for your patience. We promise your Happy Mail is on the way!
💕 Can I nominate someone else to receive Happy Mail?
Yes, absolutely! Just make sure you include their complete mailing address, and maybe give them a heads-up that something special is coming their way.
🌎 Do you ship internationally?
I do my best to send Happy Mail worldwide! For international inquiries, please message me first so I can get a shipping estimate. I’m happy to split the cost—typically, it comes to about $20 total, so your portion would be $10. Just reach out before submitting the form so we can sort the details.
💸 Can I donate to help keep Happy Mail going?
Yes, and thank you so much! Happy Mail is completely community-funded—every duck, charm, envelope, and stamp exists because of generous folks like you. If you’d like to help spread the love, you can donate at one of the places listed below or purchase supplies directly from the Happy Mail Amazon Wishlist. Even a few dollars makes a big difference.
https://cash.app/$NerisaMcQueen
https://venmo.com/u/Its_Nerisa
https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/Nerisa1022
📝 TL;DR – Quick Recap
Because we get it sometimes your brain is tired.
💌 One free Happy Mail per person—double-check your address before submitting.
📦 You will get tracking info from ship@pirateship.com.
💛 No free replacements, but you can reorder for $10 if something breaks or gets lost.
✨ Nerisa makes custom necklaces—proceeds support Happy Mail! Order one here.
⏳ Packages ship in batches—please be patient with timing.
💕 You can nominate someone else—just make sure their info is correct.
🌎 International? Message me first—shipping is usually $10 on your end.
💸 Donations make this magic possible. Support here.